Spreading The Gospel

ABUSE AWARENESS– Emotional Abuse

There are so many victims!! There are so many wounds! And, each wound on every victim leads to the same thing… brokenness.

Now, many people use the word verbal abuse and emotional abuse interchangeably. However, emotional abuse is actually inclusive of verbal abuse, but adds another dimension of abuse. Not only is the victim torn down and beat down verbally, they are actually abused by the abusers actions…stopping short of laying hands on them which would go into physical abuse.Isolating the victim.

Withholding love from the victim.emotional-abuse4
Ignoring the victim.
Silence treatment to the victim.
A “look” to the victim.
Not being involved in victim’s life.
Not accepting the victim’s opinion.
Showing no compassion to the victim.
Having victims “walk on eggshells.”
Reflecting emotions like anger or irritability without speaking.
In emotionally abusive relationships, this abuse tends to happen every day which has more damaging effects than other abuses that do not occur every day. Part of the problem is that emotional abuse can be so underhanded or so subtle, that the victims begin to accept the behaviors as normal and does not even realize that they are being abused. Unlike just verbal where hurtful words are spoken and unlike physical abuse where the abuser becomes physically aggressive, emotional abuse can be totally unspoken and no actions involved. It is the non-spoken communication between abuser and victim that tears down the victim even more and has them “walking on eggshells” to avoid confrontation….
Again, I know! I walked on “eggshells” for years and apologized for millions of things that I did not do because of the anger projected from my abuser. But, most days, I still did not know that I was being abused.
Prayer: Lord, please bring healing and deliverance to the abused and broken of this world. Help them to realize their worth and restore their self-esteem. Heal the wounds hidden deep within our spirits and souls and guide us down the path of life that You have chosen for us… in Jesus’ Name. Amen.
by Secret Angel of Secret Angel Ministry and The Abuse Expose’ with Secret Angelhttp://www.secretangelministry.org and http://www.secretangelps911.wordpress.com


5 responses

  1. This is so important and true. I have been an egg shell walker too. Thank you so much for reaching out with His healing love today. God bless!

    April 1, 2015 at 12:49 am

    • Many thanks and many blessings to you. I tried to leave comments on your poems but I could not get a comment box. Love your poetry.

      April 2, 2015 at 12:19 am

  2. Pingback: Abuse: More than Bruises | Psych2Go.net

  3. Reblogged this on Speak Out 4 Others .

    January 19, 2017 at 4:31 am

    • Thanks for the reblog. I really appreciate the support.

      January 20, 2017 at 2:06 am

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